October 05, 2024 | Ulysses Swanson

Francis Dubois / Frances Outcault: a queer second chance at life

This “female husband” found a way to still be Frank -- even after they were outed and made to live as a woman.
Vintage map of Fond Du Lac County, Wisconsin 1878

“I... propose to wear pants, smoke, and earn my living as a man.”

In late 1881, “Mrs. Hudson” left behind a husband and two children in Illinois to live as a man named Francis “Frank” Dubois in Wisconsin. Even after Mr. Hudson tracked them down, ended Dubois’ marriage with their wife, and made them return to Illinois in 1883, Francis/Frances still found a way to live their truth decades later.

Francis spent the first 28 years of their life in Belvidere, Illinois, where they were expected to be a daughter, wife, and mother. They grew up there, the third of five children, raised by their father and stepmother. In 1871, in Belvidere, 18-year-old “Delia” Derthick married 42-year-old Samuel Hudson (1829-1895), a soap seller. And it was in that town where “Mrs. Hudson” gave birth to two daughters.

Fatefully, the Hudsons moved to the city of Fond du Lac, Wisconsin around 1881.

By December of that year, Samuel decided to move the family back to Belvidere. He took the train there with their children first, expecting his “wife” to follow soon after. “Mrs. Hudson,” however, never arrived in Belvidere. 

In January 1882, Francis Dubois arrived in Waupun.

In Frank's own words

When interviewed by the press in Brandon, Francis explained how they made a living in Waupun, what their future plans with Gertie had been, and how they had tried to escape their husband this second, less successful time. They also clearly stated that they did not want to spend the rest of their life as “Mrs. Hudson”:

“I will not return to live with Hudson, and propose to wear pants, smoke, and earn my living as a man.”

They also tried to convince the interviewer that they had “induced her [Gertie] to keep silent” once she learned of their assigned sex after their wedding.

Francis may have been telling the truth, or they may have said this to protect their wife’s reputation.

Gertie wept during the interview.

According to the interviewer, Francis did too.

Short-lived liberties

 It was not until after Samuel’s death that Francis could be themself again. Soon after their husband’s death in 1895, Francis, living as a woman, remarried a widower named William Outcalt (1850-1930) in Rockford.

From then on, Francis, who had been forced to be “Delia Hudson” for much of their life, including the decade after their two years in Wisconsin, went by Frances Outcalt.

While they did not necessarily live as a man again, they were able to live the last twenty five years of their life as Francis/Frances, until their death on July 1, 1920.

francis_dubois_frances_outcalt Francis “Du Buoys,” as their name was written on their marriage certificate (Wisconsin Historical Society)

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